The art of solo dating: Fun solo adventure ideas

It’s been months since you told your circle to catch up on the new café in town. It’s also been a week since you asked them to plan for a possible trip or hit the theatres for a fun film. However, the group chat’s silent. Everyone seems busy with work, with life. It’s as if their schedule never quite aligns with yours.

Here’s the thing: you’re allowed to do fun things on your own. Taking yourself out on a date won’t be as lonely as you thought it would. When else would you get to do what you want and how you want it without waiting on anyone else? Not sure where to start? These gentle and fun solo date ideas may help kickstart your ventures.

Catch a film at your local cinema

Watching a movie alone might feel weird at times if you’re used to having someone to watch with. However, it’s also liberating to go inside the theatres and pick exactly which one to watch without compromises. 

You might also want to keep your eyes peeled when you go. Most theatres have enticing deals being offered, especially on off-peak days or during themed screenings. This makes your solo trip even better. There’s just something refreshing about not needing to chat through the trailers or share popcorn. All you have to do is sit back and lose yourself in a story played on the big screen.

Sign up for a cooking or baking class

Always wanted to try sourdough from scratch or sushi rolls that don’t fall apart? A cooking or baking class is a fun way to engage in hands-on activity. You get to develop a new skill, meet new people, and even take home the food you made. You can look for community centres, local cafés, or Airbnb experiences for one-day or short classes.

Sip a cup of coffee while journaling

Take yourself out to a coffee shop with cosy lighting and a good selection of pastries. Bring your journal and settle in for an hour of writing, doodling, or simply observing people going about their day. You can order your usual or try something new from the café to make the experience more unique.

Treat yourself to a concert

Concerts can feel overwhelming, especially when surrounded by a sea of people. However, if it’s an artist you love, everything’s worth it. If no one’s free to go with you, go anyway. Nothing beats the feeling of singing your heart out with a crowd that loves the same music as you.

Quick tip: Opt for a standing ticket if you want to dance and vibe more; or consider a balcony one if you prefer a more comfortable view.

Book an extreme adventure

Have you ever thought of zip lining or indoor rock climbing as a solo date? You don’t have to go as extreme as bungee jumping, but an activity outside your comfort zone can be empowering. You can try one thing that excites and terrifies you—one that’s enough to make you feel brave.

Try a little street combing

Street combing is a simple technique that helps creatives get fresh ideas. You’ll just roam around the streets and take in the sights and sounds of urban life. You can walk through local markets, vintage shops, or parks. Photograph things that catch your eye, browse books, or if you decide to bring a mini canvas with you, paint a view.

The art of enjoying your own company

Fun doesn’t have to always come with a crowd, and being alone doesn’t mean being lonely. Sometimes, your best days are the ones well-spent with yourself. What’s exciting here is that most places also often have enticing deals being offered for solo travellers.